Wednesday, June 29, 2011

QUITTING SMOKING

5 Ways to Quit Smoking for Good

You've made the decision to quit smoking — now you need a plan, resolve, and support. Here are five tips that will help you quit smoking for life.


Quitting smoking is no small feat. To do it successfully, it helps to know what worked for others. These tips will help you see it through, from beginning to end.


  • Pick a day to quit smoking. Having a specific day in mind will help you stick to your goal. One day next month would be best — that will give you enough time to plan for it, but not enough time to talk yourself out of it. Don't quit smoking during holiday periods or at a time when you can expect a lot of additional stress. Post the date on your calendar, and let family and close co-workers and friends know.

  • Visit your doctor. Discuss your decision to quit smoking, and ask if nicotine replacement therapy or other medications might help you quit.

  • Cut back now. In the days leading up to your quit-smoking day, begin cutting back on the number of cigarettes you smoke each day. Try to smoke just half a cigarette when you do light up.

  • Get smart. Read about what you'll be going through, especially nicotine withdrawal and the stresses of quitting. Start paying attention to triggers that make you want to smoke. You'll need to avoid or deal with these triggers once you've quit smoking.

  • Plan substitutes. Stock up on cigarette substitutes like carrot sticks, hard candy, straws, toothpicks, and sugarless gum.

  1. Seek Help and Support to Stop Smoking






    • Tell family and friends about your quit-smoking day, and ask for their support. Just having someone to talk with can help you during low moments.


    • Ask those who still smoke not to smoke around you while you're trying to quit smoking.


    • Find a support group or a smoking cessation program in your area. Many groups like the American Lung Association and the American Cancer Society offer programs through which smokers can receive help and advice while they're trying to quit smoking.



  1. Make Your Quit-Smoking Day Special






    • Don't smoke at all. Not one puff. This is it!


    • Get rid of all of your smoking paraphernalia. Toss out your cigarettes, matches, lighters, and ashtrays.


    • Plan to stay busy all day. Go for a walk or exercise. Go someplace where smoking isn't allowed, like the library or the movies. Eat foods you don't normally eat, and take routes you don't normally take. The idea is to avoid any association with your usual patterns of behavior.


    • Begin using a nicotine replacement, if you've decided that will help you.


    • Drink lots of water and juice. This will give you something to do and help flush the nicotine out of your body.



  1. Be Prepared to Deal With Smoking Withdrawal Symptoms

    As time passes, you’ll need to confront rationalizations. You will come up with reasons to smoke that wouldn't normally make any sense to you except at this point, when you're in the middle of a powerful craving. Thoughts like, "Just one to get me through this rough patch" and "I can't deal with this today, I'll quit tomorrow" will go through your mind. See these thoughts for what they are, and ignore them. Here’s how:




    • Avoid situations that trigger the desire to smoke.


    • Find ways to deal with cravings. Take slow, deep breaths until the craving passes. Drink some water slowly and hold it in your mouth. Munch on carrot sticks or suck some hard candy. Focus on a crossword puzzle. Play with a rubber band.


    • If nothing else works, just tell yourself to hold off smoking for 10 minutes; often, that will get you past the craving.





    Related: Benefits of Breaking the Habit






  1. Maintain Your Resolve, But Be Ready for a Slip

    Whenever you feel your resolve weakening, remind yourself of all the benefits of not smoking:




    • Count the money you're saving on cigarettes, consider how much better everything tastes and smells, and think about how your secondhand smoke is no longer affecting your family and friends.


    • Avoid alcohol. Drinking makes it more likely you'll slide back into smoking.


    • Eat right and exercise. A healthy diet and an exercise regimen can keep your mind off cravings and draw attention to how much better you feel now that you've quit smoking.


    • Reward yourself. Buy something special with the money you've saved on cigarettes.


    • Quickly regain control if you slip. Slipping is not the same as relapse — it's just a one-time mistake. You're still a non-smoker. Rededicate yourself, and use the slip as a learning opportunity by asking yourself what triggered your desire to smoke and what you can do to avoid it in the future.




Quitting smoking is difficult but not impossible. Many have done it before you and had to try a number of times before they were successful. Don’t give up!

Start With a Stop-Smoking Plan
Read more at www.everydayhealth.com
 


Tuesday, April 12, 2011

"MOMMA, I'VE FALLEN & CAN'T GET UP!!!!!!" LITERALLY

Have you ever fallen and felt like you can't get up?! Or like someone or something is holding you down?! Like you are stuck in the pit of hell and are just trying to keep your cool?! Well that is EXACTLY how I have been feeling for about a year now. I'm jobless, live at home with my mom, 30 years old with no kids and I feel like my life is just passing me by. I've been jobless going on 3 years now and it's not that I am not looking, shit I fill out applications damn near everyday, I've found a part-time job that allows me to work from home and make my own hours but it's not enough for me. I have bills and a life that I want to fully enjoy, but I have no financial resources. Simply put, I FEEL USELESS!!!!! I've become a shell of my former self. I was once happy go lucky, now i'm just down on my luck. I used to view life with the glass is half full mentality, now my glass is just fucking empty. I was once optimistic and have since become a pessimist. I feel like my options in every aspect of life have dwindled and I will NEVER get outta this rut. I still know God has a plan for me, but I've become very impatient while waiting for it to be "my turn."
I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO DO AND I AM SCREAMING FOR HELP!!!!!!!!!! 

Monday, January 31, 2011

ALLOW ME TO INTRODUCE MYSELF:

So, this is my very 1st post and I haven't written in what feels like ages. I'm a little perplexed as to what to write about, so maybe I should start with something that I am a expert on: ME!!!!! LOL 
Well for starters I am a full grown woman, I am NOT your porcelain doll!!!! S/O Chrisette Michelle. LOL But seriously, I am a 30 year old, beautiful black, plus sized (FAT) woman who is at the age where she is questioning as well as trying to figure out A LOT of things about herself. I am not the girl I was 3 years ago. My mindset has changed and I am not as sure of things as I once was, yet I am more confident in life's miracles, mysterious, and triumphs. To put it in layman's terms: I AM FINDING MY TRUE SELF and this is my way of documenting my experiences. I am an AVID music lover (all genres), book reader, pop culture fanatic & fashion fiend. This blog will showcase my love as well as disdain for certain people places and things, so I welcome anyone who wants to ride shotgun with me on my journey. So relax, have some wine, put on your Sunday's Best, pop in your fave riding music & BUCKLE YOUR FUCKIN SEATBELT cause your in for 1 hell of a ride!!!!!! 


SINCERELY, 
THE MADAME